Showing Up

8/6/2023

Showing up for yourself and others is at the very center of what it means to be human. But yet, it is often the hardest thing to do.

Whether you come from a background that didn't teach it as a core value or are neurodivergent and experience executive dysfunction, your inability to manifest showing up is often the consequence.

I don't want to suggest that not showing up is acceptable or inevitable - simply because it is hard.

Industry, determination, authenticity, creativity, acts of kindness, and dedication to your community and your personal tribe are all traits that you can learn and, in the end, be most proud of.

But how do we teach the skill of showing up?

My go-to for teaching almost everything is modeling. Literally, show what "showing up" looks like - name it.
Normalize vulnerability, authenticity, gratitude, engagement, and creativity.
Ask what they notice about the folks they admire and make a list.
Let people know that you expect them to "show up," do the work, and take responsibility.
And then trust that they will - and thank them.