The Path of Least Resistance

Digby Doo DRC Cat is waiting on his Peeps!

Over the past few weeks, several parents have confided that their children, whether Deep Root Center student members or homeschool consultees, will be returning to a formal school setting this September. At first, these decisions left me scratching my head, especially since many of these young people left school behind because it failed them in a variety of ways. Their needs and interests were overlooked, and some felt adrift—bored, anxious, unsupported, or even bullied. As I read through their messages, a deeper pattern began to emerge, hinting at the reasons behind this return to traditional classrooms. 

As I reflected on all this earlier in the week, I realized that these families, like free-flowing water, may be seeking the path of least resistance. I totally understand this impulse. There's an undeniable appeal to following the cultural norm of school attendance, where the day is structured for you, major decisions are made with little direct input, the rules are established and clear, and conforming within prescribed boundaries is rewarded. 

Despite my initial confusion, I genuinely empathize with these choices. In some cases, the inherent freedom and looseness of the Deep Root Center and self-directed learning in a homeschool setting can feel uncomfortable and unmooring and may not be for everyone. Additionally, many of these children, for various reasons, have felt disconnected throughout their lives, and perhaps they simply want to experience what their peers take for granted—in a formal educational setting. I can also imagine parents longing for the practical simplicity of a school day routine, allowing them to focus on work and the countless responsibilities required to keep their families housed, fed, and secure. 

However, from my admittedly privileged perspective of distance (my kiddos are long ago grown & gone), I also recognize the potential hidden dangers of choosing the path of least resistance. Like water invading spaces meant to stay dry, this seemingly easier route may lead to unwelcome consequences that can gradually compromise the original best of intentions.  

With that being said, I am sending all the families who are making these difficult decisions my heartfelt, warmest wishes. I sincerely hope their children discover the fulfillment, success, and growth they are seeking within the walls of a more structured environment.  

And as always, Deep Root Center’s doors remain wide open, ready to welcome anyone back with kindness and understanding if their journey takes an unexpected turn.   

DRC News

The Center and Digby Doo are ready for our kiddos to return on Sept. 8th!
We have a few spaces open, if your child is seeking an alternative to school that meets them where they are at, get in touch. 

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