No Excuse for Hate

In a world where cruelty and intolerance are amplified, we occasionally find prejudice and unkindness invading even our intentionally safe space, as well. It is to be expected — kids are our canaries in the coal mine — they see, hear, and digest everything and then often repeat it without completely understanding the impact or repercussions of their words.  

Our central mission at DRC is to support kids in embracing their authentic selves while accepting and respecting others doing the same. This is not an easy task; it certainly is not all rainbows and kittens over here. We undeniably have painful moments when intolerance and hurtful words land direct hits.

When called out — the excuses mirror those heard when bigots and bullies everywhere are admonished — "I'm just joking" or "It's my opinion, and I get to have one."

As a community, we quickly call out these defenses, as well. Other kids are usually not afraid to jump in and say, "That's not OK."  Admittedly, they can get a bit too vehement and rude in their correction. Sometimes, they need an adult's help to explain that bullying, homophobia, transphobia, misogyny, xenophobia, and so on are not jokes or opinions and are, in fact, hate speech and behavior. For example, an opinion is saying you don't like green peppers on your pizza or that summer is better than winter, not that you believe an entire group of people should not exist.

Modeling respect, encouragement, and acceptance (rather than mere tolerance) is vital. Our children need to witness more examples of kindness and empathy than they do of hate and indifference. When these values impact their lives directly, we can only hope the messages become loud and clear.

DRC News

It was a chill week at DRC Canton with a pretty small crew. Our vacationers are due back this coming week, so we should have a full house again.

The DRC Little Free Library transformation is complete - a coat of polyurethane was applied on Friday and it will go back out on Monday to be filled with books once again. We are sorry for the hiatus, but think the phenomenal results were definitely worth it! The post still needs to be painted, but that can wait until warmer weather.

The Pop-ups Peeps had a chill week, as well. They met at the Nicandri Nature Center on Wednesday and the Massena Library on Thursday. Janine reports that the participants had plenty of independent and collaborative projects to keep them busy.

Women's History Month

In solidarity with all women, DRC has honored some inspiring voices this entire month. This last week, we highlighted winners of the Noble Peace Prize with quotes that seem particularly fitting for these times.

Celebrating Earth Month

April is Earth Month - stay tuned for inspirational quotes from climate justice warriors every day on our social media.