As you can probably guess, this essay is a companion to last week's post, Presumed Competence, where I talked about trusting kids' creativity, abilities, and natural desire to learn. This week, I will discuss how, in my view, our children are being $cr*wed over by incompetence on the national stage which is then trickling down to local levels. Federal "leadership" (I put it in quotes because nothing about our current administration qualifies it to be called that.) is blatantly and gleefully dismantling and destroying essential departments and services piece by piece based purely on their own petty grudges and obscene greed. They treat our children and vulnerable populations as disposable collateral, with their flagrantly brazen disregard for the rule of law. As I have said before, this is by design - there is nothing accidental or remotely political about it. However, this ineptitude isn't only found nationally; I see the results right here daily. Firstly, our children are being misdiagnosed and underdiagnosed and then put on meds that are not appropriate (and sometimes harmful). This is compounded by our severe lack of healthcare providers (including mental health) in the NoCo, as well as the extreme cost for evaluations, which includes traveling at least three hours for services. (Even if you can get an appointment, it takes months. And when you are dealing with a "right now" problem those months seem like an eternity.) The second issue is the dangerous levels of poverty and trauma many of our NoCo kids are exposed to. This situation will only deteriorate because our existing localized community Social Service and non-profit organizations that work with our youth are overwhelmed and are insufficiently funded and staffed. Thirdly is how the educational system often views neurodivergent and special needs children's behaviors through a punitive lens, which then means these kids (whether correctly diagnosed or not) are labeled "bad," "hard to handle," "violent," or just plain belligerent. In an already coercive, underfunded system, this is a recipe for disaster. They frequently end up on PINS (Persons in Need of Supervision) or expelled altogether - with no support in place. These problems aren’t simply about a lack of dollars - it is about effective training with the most current scientific knowledge about all the levels of neurodivergence, mental health disorders, and all the other special needs. Then, use that knowledge to create safe, welcoming, encouraging, and inspiring spaces for our kids. Sadly, all of these issues are also complicated by overwhelming exhaustion, burnout, attitudes, closed minds, an unwillingness to learn, and a devastating lack of empathy - all symptoms of a broken system. When people judge and blame others instead of naming the situation as the problem - they are utterly blind to any potential solutions. I believe our primary responsibility is to help people recognize that caring for (and taking care of) one another is crucial for healing our society. Empathy is just the beginning, but it is an essential first step toward achieving all the many things we need to not simply survive --- but to thrive. DRC NewsEven though we had a three-day week in Canton (we use local staff development days as staff rest days), it was a full & busy one with lots of outside and creative explorations! Our Little Free Library is still getting a makeover. Our artists are still working on the back and need to come up with and implement the design for the front. It will hopefully be back up by Tuesday. The Pop-Ups Crew enjoyed their time at the Norwood and Massena Libraries this week. Janine reported that there was plenty of collaboration on projects, they played their favorite - mum ball, as well as a game one kid created, some took a walk both days, and Janine helped another study his brown belt information. Women's History Month In solidarity with all women, including the courageous women of the Ukraine, DRC is honoring several inspiring voices to Celebrate Women's History Month. Homeschool Guide In response to all of the questions that come our way - this guide has been refined for those who have already jumped in and begun the process but are seeking guidance in pursuing self-directed learning (unschooling). Please share this with anyone you feel would benefit from the info.
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Every time DRC attends a community-centered event, like the Kid Expo this past weekend, we have a table filled with arts and crafts materials that children can use to create to their heart's content. There are no examples or instructions, just a bunch of art supplies and an open invitation for kids to use them in whatever way they want. It never ceases to amaze me how, in most cases, their adults try to take over (control the artistic process) or rush them along to get to the next activity. My other observation is as concerning and definitely related - many kids by a certain age (9, 10, or 11) say they are bad at art and refuse to try. They have internalized the broader message that their creativity isn't good enough or acceptable or that it isn't valuable in the larger scheme of life. Or even more worrying are their attempts to hide (bury) their authentic selves by denying their artistic abilities to fit in. Peter Gray, the developmental psychologist and author of Free to Learn, comes at this conundrum from the perspective that parents feel obligated to over-protect and manage their children because of societal norms and fear. Read one of his Substack letters that directly addresses this - here. I firmly believe that creativity, curiosity, and a desire for autonomy are fundamental components of childhood (indeed, our whole lives) and need to be honored. Kids are born with the compulsion to create - put a crayon, marker, or paintbrush in a toddler's hand, let them sit down in the mud puddle or sandbox, give them a ball of dough, a pile of Lego (DUPLO), or wooden blocks and stand back and watch the magic. Their end products might not look like what you think they should - but through play and experimentation, they are making essential connections and learning about themselves and the world through the materials and the process, which is the whole point. This leads me to the first of seven truths (principles) in our foundational philosophy of self-directed learning, brilliantly expressed by Ken Danford and his team at North Star.
Yes! Kids are competent! With available tools, materials, and enthusiastic support - they can accomplish whatever they want to. It may not be perfect, finished, or even "pretty," but it is theirs, and they have learned how to persist through the inherent mistakes, mess, and frustration found during the creative process. This is the "grit" that detractors are so fond of pronouncing is missing in our youth. The pure joy of imagining, exploring, playing, creating, making a mess, and learning should persist for our entire lives - but is often cut short by criticism, the demand to get "serious," or the incessant messages that bombard us to appear "normal." That is just one of many reasons you will find me out here modeling playfulness, celebrating my "weirdness" and innate ability to get messy, all the while cheering on "my" DRC kiddos as they explore the boundaries of their creativity and authentic selves. DRC NewsThe Canton Crew had another busy week, and we actually got some photographic evidence! Among many activities and projects, our writer's workshop peeps met with Abhainn, our SLU volunteer, for the last time on Monday to firm up the story part of their Digby Picture book. Then, they met on their own to develop the storyboard (combining the components of the written story with the planned drawing for each page). Stay tuned as the creative team produces the art and begins to compile the book. Some of our die-hard winter lovers went sledding (probably for the last time) on the little bit of ice and snow left in our front yard. Our Little Free Library is getting a much-needed makeover. Our artists will narrow down the themes they brainstormed and get it painted this coming week. We hope to have it back up by Thursday. We also welcomed a new teen to our crew on Tuesday, and on Thursday, reporter Tom Graser came out to hang with us for a bit and interview us for a story for the Plain Dealer and WDT. Keep an eye out for those. Janine reports that the Pop-up Peeps had a great time at the Norwood and Massena Libraries this past week. Two of them went out on Wednesday and purchased baked treats from the Norwood News Cafe for everyone, and they had some deep and thoughtful discussions covering a variety of topics each day. Next week they will be at both libraries again - Norwood on Wednesday (3/16) and Massena Thursday (3/17). We cannot begin to express how grateful we are for our Pop-up Hosts. They are the only reason we can continue this program! Thank you! Women’s History In solidarity with all women, including the courageous women of the Ukraine, DRC is honoring several inspiring voices to Celebrate Women's History Month.
Grant News Thank you to the Stewart's shops for two recent donations. The first was a $300 check supporting DRC's Healing Through Mentoring & Creative Expression Project. And the second was a $250 check from their Annual Holiday Match to support purchasing food for our cooking classes and daily lunch program.
Slash-and-burn is a traditional agricultural method used by indigenous peoples in rain forests around the world. This technique involves girdling trees (slashing) and burning them once they have died. It was an effective tool for small-scale food production, allowing families or villages to grow their own food. It created space, enriched the soil sustainably, allowed for forest regeneration, and worked for centuries. ...Until, in very simplistic terms, big companies took over the land to overproduce cash crops for international sales, effectively raping the land (destroying rain forests by the thousands of acres a day) and forcing previous landowners into servitude - farming mono-cultures to survive, then exporting it all - making obscene profits for the corporations. Meanwhile, the farmers must rely on imports of lesser-quality food to feed their families. The parallels to what is happening in real-time are undeniable and truly vile - which is utterly beyond my comprehension. But then, I guess that is the point. Nonetheless, I will continue to provide "my" kiddos with a safe, open educational environment where they will find all the kindness, trust, and respect they deserve. I will continue supporting all the folks who reach out for assistance. Additionally, I will continue to highlight our dedication to things like Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion --- because I refuse to let a slash-and-burn strategy and a sheer lack of integrity influence my values or destroy the community we have built. The one and only thought that gets me through the days is that I know a majority of folks are right there with me. DRC NewsThe Canton Crew had a busy week - however, we forgot to take photos. The Pop-Ups Peeps enjoyed their time at the Nicandri Nature Center and the Massena Library this week. Women's History In solidarity with all women, including the courageous women of the Ukraine, DRC is honoring several inspiring voices to Celebrate Women's History Month. We had a great time meeting folks at the Kid Expo yesterday! Thanks to everyone who stopped by to talk and create art. Lotto Raffle - One week left to buy your chances!
It infuriates me when folks refer to adults who are badly behaved as children or toddlers. Just No! Instead, let's name the dreadful behavior - bullying, disrespecting, antagonizing, throwing a tantrum, belligerence, hostility, narcissism, playing the victim, sabotaging, gaslighting, greediness, manipulation, and all the endless versions of disgusting a$$holery. None of these should be equated with the word childish. Yes, children misbehave sometimes; however, it is usually not premeditated or vindictive. Children are growing and learning beings who get angry, frustrated, sad, disappointed, and generally dysregulated and act out. With loving guidance, they can discover how to respectfully and safely negotiate their emotions and behavior without hurting themselves or others. Badly behaved adults are just that, with no excuses or equivalencies. DRC NewsThe DRC Canton Crew had a great week! The Pop-Ups Peeps met at Nicandri and the Massena Public Library this past week. They will be at Nicandri again this Wednesday and the Massena Library on Thursday. Janine suggests kiddos bring snow gear on the days they are at Nicandri so they can access the skis, snowshoes, and outdoor fun. She also encourages participants to bring their laptops/devices, snacks, and projects or games they want to share/work on with others. Black History Month We finished the month with moving quotes from these six influential black women. Women's History Month In solidarity with all women, DRC is honoring several inspiring voices to celebrate Women's History Month in March. Stay tuned to our social media accounts for daily quotes. Kid Expo
Fundraisers Fifteen days left to purchase your chance to win the $100 worth of pictured Lotto Tickets. Must be 18+ to participate. Drawing is March 17th. get your raffle tickets from DRC families or online by clicking below. As the NoCo is hit by the latest winter storm, your friends at DRC are sending out summer vibes as we begin planning our second annual Craft Fair/Family Fun event Saturday, Aug. 9th at the Norwood Village Park. Vendors can find the link to the registration form. Save the date! We hope to see you there!
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